Tuesday, September 30, 2014

Our Indian-ness?

Source: www.wn.com

“Rajdeep Sardesai heckled and manhandled at Madison Square Garden” screamed most headlines across the country over the last two days. A video that claimed to be the other side of the story went viral on social media making more than one pair of eyes roll at how hypocritical the famed journalist could be. Then rose the eye witnesses from the media world who shed light on the real story about how Rajdeep was manhandled by fanatic supporters over what had begun as a simple tweet.

Was Rajdeep in the wrong or was he victimized? Were the Indian ‘brain drain’ just venting the frustrations of the fanatical supporter or did they blindly cross the line? While these are questions being thrashed over social media and argued over single malt, none of them even make it to my bemused Indian mind.

What does creep in is a feeling of shame; because we Indians have done ourselves proud; once again.
Be it the ‘Aam Aadmi’ who leads a frustrated life bogged down by the shadows of corruption and crime that are perennially cast in the motherland he lives in or the suave NRI with the ‘firang’ accent, sitting in a remote corner of the world vocally devout in his aspirations for the development of Bharat Mata or the bandwagon of senior media persons who have dropped everything to follow NaMo halfway across the world- all have proven time and again how consistent we are in displaying what I am now inclined to call the Indian-ness in our behaviour.

Be it in India or out, having a low tolerance for a different view and displaying support fanaticism through violence and abuse seems to be something we Indians excel at. Wherever we go, we don’t seem to change; possessively we cling on to this aggression and impatience and make a proud display of it at every chance we get.

As India goes gaga over its Prime Minister and his exemplary speeches; I wonder if we take a pause to give our own behaviour a thought. While we applaud NaMo for his tough response to Pakistan at UNGA and his perspective on development; don’t we feel even a speck of embarrassment at the lack of basic courtesy we display especially in public?

Why does who actually won the race to initiate the assault first at Madison Square Garden matter so much that it hogs the limelight for days together? Our behaviour shows no sign of questioning the occurrence of such an incident in public in a foreign country; instead all we care about is who did what. Why?

Or is it all but a hype created by Media? The infamous Indian Media who time and again has proved its loyalties to popularity and ratings? – News is after all whatever that sells like a hot cake. An assault on a veteran journalist definitely makes the cut. No?

And while the media and people stay busy with their applause and their insults, I watch the John Oliver show snippet about Modi’s visit and cringe wondering if a day will ever rise when we will realize what a true show of mockery we sometimes end up making of ourselves.

21 comments:

  1. Indians wear their bravado and aggression as a badge of honour. We take pride in "being emotional". "Being emotional" is also a handy excuse for not being able to deal with dissenting opinions. Only difference is, Indians in US swear in English rather than Hindi.

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    1. I agree... that definition of emotional is so obscure and abused beyond measure

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  2. Not to mention that the coverage of news,in any case, reduces a PM's foreign visit to the level of a film star's visit - all about the reception, nothing about the substance - even without all this drama.

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    1. film star visit it is. reminds me of the coverage of Cannes, of what Aishwarya Rai and Mallika Sherawat wore. They have been covering Modi;s wardrobe n detail as well.

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  3. I saw the incident live on Headlines Today. The crowd behavior was nothing to be proud of. They were angry with Rajdeep for his alleged biased reporting of 2002 riots, but their anger does not justify heckling a journalist. It was a sad spectacle. And basic courtesy? Modi supporters are doing a great disservice to their leader by demonstrating such aggression in public and on the net. In response to my article about media hype, one supporter called me a frustrated soul like Rajdeep. Clearly, the guy had not read the article because I was praising his leader and critiquing the media hype. Sad times.

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    1. Wow.. I am sure he did not read a word of your article, just goes to show how fanatic people can behave

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  4. I haven't seen the clip or follow such news simply because I don't want to in any way encourage any talk of such nonsense. However I wouldn't generalise about Indian behaviour or Indian-ness based on a few such incidents whether by a few individuals or by a handful of journalists.

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    1. It wasn't really a generalization, more an expression of how we tend to behave in public over differences in opinion. While I agree that these people might be in a minority, when it comes to public display of such behaviour, a few rotten apples can spoil the basket is what I think

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  5. Unfortunately i could not watch the John Oliver show because of the safety mode.I think we should be more restrained in our behavior.

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    1. I am sure there are people across nations and cultures who behave crude but frankly I dont care about them.. all i care is about how we are. As you rightly put, we need to lean to show restrain and more importantly tolerance.

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  6. So what if he lost his cool and abused one of the assembled outside Madison Square? As if we are a paragon of virtues and a nation of well-behaved citizens. When it comes to judging without hearing two sides of the story, we Indians are unparalleled.

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    1. :) true, we have truly set our benchmark there haven't we?

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  7. i have seen that clip live.they started abusing him and pushing him when he asked them a straight question"WHAT DID NRI'S DO TO THEIR COUNTRY,THEY HAVE COME TO APPEAR ON TELEVISION AND TO TAKE PICS.ARE YOU REALLY INTERESTED IN GOING BACK TO INDIA AND DO SOMETHING SUBSTANTIAL OR ITS JUST FOR PHOTOS AND SCREAMS YOU HAVE ASSEMBLED AT MADISON SQUARE GARDEN..there were delhi local bjp leaders like vijay jolly who has led the mob.everyone knows vijay jolly for painting shoma chowdhary house black.they are such hoologans and goondas who take law into their hands to show mobocracy.

    rajdeep too is very provocative when interviewing ,he lacks basic decency when asking questions,when he interviewed raj thackeray during general elections he asked him on face"everyone says raj thackeray barks a lot but on ground he doesn't have strength".this made raj so furious,he left interview in middle.

    its more like goondaism with goondas.indians were never known for social manners or for good behavior. its really scary to speak truth in open in india,people will beat you to death.

    at the end of the day,indian business men like mukesh ambani spent millions of dollars in organising crowds and in flying indians to usa to create crowds wherever modi goes.it was really superficial.there was a moment when modi said gandhi returned to india on particular date to fight for independence and nri's too should return to india in 2015 to celebrate gandhi's pravas bharathi divas.all nri's sat motionless and din't reply him whether they will return to india when he asked them to say yes or no.

    there is more hypocrisy and hype around indian behavior when it comes to their motives.

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    1. The problem was at both ends but like it or not both reflected badly on us. and like you said there is a lot of hypocrisy in Indian behaviour

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  8. I don't know what to say, Seeta. Luckily I was away on vacation and did not follow the story avidly. I did catch the video online. I think the behavior of both the sides was atrocious. All that it did was mar the visit of an Indian PM. We really have idiots both in the media and among people who just can't keep their tempers and words in check.

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    1. Yeah it did just that, mar the visit. I know its an issue across countries but all i care is about how we behave.. and it wasn't good..

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  9. I cringed at the way we were tom-toming to the world we had arrived. I also feel uncomfortable about the way our media is not able to stick to a sane rational ground with moderate comments instead of exhibiting extremes of behavior. We seem to exhilarate in the heights of dizzy self-delusion of grandeur and sink to the lowest nadir of self - abnegation. When are we going to exhibit a more mature behavior ? I saw Rajdeep's video online and saw his incessant heckling which
    was enough to create the madness in a Modi-crazed mob. It was indeed the pits to watch. As far as the John Oliver show was concerned, yes it took a cruel dig at the pomp and giltz but I would also take it with a pinch of salt at its unkind jokes towards Modi's choice of English words. Well, as far as the world is concerned, they may take a walk if they only have to crib about our English and usage of words, as long as we have the money in the pocket.

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    1. You have aptly defined the behaviour of our media. While I agree that John Olivers comments were aimed at the English, I personally think when we speak to an audience esp. as a world leader we should know what we are saying. The ones they pointed out was stupid but there were other glaring mistakes.. he referred to Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi as Mohanlal.....

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  10. Hm.. Indians do disgrace themselves abroad. But I guess so do most people from third world countries. Guess it comes from the insecurity of being in such a country.

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    1. hmmm, that is an interesting view.. insecurity.. wonder if that drives our media as well to behave as baboonish as it usually does?

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  11. Guess I am late with comments but it gets ridiculous with those Sanghis attacking journalists and calling them names. Unfortunately, things has got worse during the past two years.

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